A reader suggested using a magnet, and I think that might have done it, too - except I probably wouldn't have thought to look in the snowbank well to one side of where I'd been working. Thanks for the suggestion, though.
Today is dreary again. Not cold, just dark and Novemberish. My thermometer is reading 36 degrees, and nothing is happening. No wind, no snow, no rain. Just dark, dreary and depressing - except it's almost Thanksgiving, and then so soon afterwards comes Christmas and the New Year, most of us don't have time to be depressed. And for some of us, therein lies the problem.
Holiday depression is very real, and there are probably nearly as many causes as there are individuals who experience it. Everyone reacts differently to different situations. For some people, it's not being with family during the holidays, for others it's BEING with family that causes it. I saw a cute cartoon the other day - a young woman has screaming children circling her as she talks on the phone:
Daughter: "Mom, you and dad aren't coming for Thanksgiving?"
Mother: "Your father is taking me on a cruise!"
Daughter: "But if you're on a cruise, you won't be with your family!"
Mother: "That's pretty much the whole idea."
For most of us, being with family, eating too much and maybe watching hours of football is just what we do on Thanksgiving. There are a lot of people who prefer to spend their Thanksgiving providing meals for less fortunate, elderly or lonely people, and that's wonderful. There are many kind and thoughtful people around who look after their neighbors.
There are also a lot of folks in our region who look forward to Thanksgiving as their time to get out into the woods to hunt deer with their buddies while their wives and girlfriends go shopping for Christmas. So, whatever fills your bucket, we wish you a Happy Thanksgiving.
As I finish writing this, snow is beginning to fall.
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